am i egoistic?

There are 2 kinds of people who r born leaders.... one with immense patience.. one with a authoritative attitude... I lack patience i agree... but i dont intend to be bossy! i do love the people whom i work with or live with... i just get a little authoritative just to make others realise they can do better.... Are these the symptoms of egoism???????? Forgive me if ur a victim of my ignorance!!!!!